Service Groups and Faith Alliance

February 15, 2022

Meeting Minutes

Attendees:

Nicole Bernard, Niki Miller, Ofc Kenneth Ragland, Jim Ahler, Steve Purucker,

Britney Williams, Kim Adcock, Robert Stevenson, Danica, Nancy Hagan, Ginger Espino, Elliot Brooks, Cheryl Stallings, Michael Merker, Deb Vinci

Introduction

Officer Raglan provided overview of how these meetings began and the purpose.  Round robin to introduce attendees. 

Niki – Rotary International has redefined their mission to include combating Human Trafficking.

Update: Representatives of the Service Groups and Faith Alliance began discussions with Town leaders to develop a way to formalize a system that would connect our group to community member’s requests for help, to assure that no needs of the community fall through the cracks.

Notes

Kim Adcock Presented:

She asked us to close our eyes and think about what ‘home’ means to us.  She then took us on an imaginary journey of being removed from our home and placed in the home of a new family.  She had us imagine what being uprooted and moved might feel like. It was a great exercise to better understand what a child goes through when they are moved into a foster home.

Kim asked for feedback from this exercise from the group:  The group felt this was valuable to help set the stage.

Any type of support is needed and helpful at any level.

Wake County Child Welfare Foster Parent Program presentation:

Who’s in care: 477 children

Where:

126 in Wake Co. Foster Homes

169 in NC but outside Wake

125 outside of Wake or NC (requires changing schools, church, recreational activities, siblings disconnection)

One Church One Family Model

This model keeps children in their community and minimizes the adjustment needed

There are 17,000 churches in NC and 2000 in Wake County.

If every church has one foster family, all children would stay in their home community

What Can We Do:

• Talk about need for more foster parents in Wake 
• Encourage member of org to attend Wake County Informational Meeting
• Host an informational meeting
• Collect new items to support children in care (suitcases, toiletries, etc)
• Join us for May activities as it is National Foster Care month 

Q&A

Robert from Rotary volunteered to round up suitcases to donate.  They also have capacity to transport items and deliver them where needed.

Kenneth said they could drop off at the Apex PD and then Kim has a place in main building to store items 

Jim Ahler – personal hygiene, suits, and clothing for children for interviews, how to shop for these clothes (gift cards), suitcases

How to support a family that choses to foster:

• Tutoring once a week
• Babysitting and willing to have a background check
• When the kids visit their birth parents, they are often emotionally overwhelmed – meal delivery for family that day would be helpful
• Someone to call and vent and listen (emotional support)
• Community playdates for the kids
• Prayer

Kim described how churches can bring interested congregation members together to support a family when the family decides to foster.

Birth family:

Social Worker must meet with them twice a month

Any needs are directed by the Social Worker

Birth parents can visit once a week with their children and have phone calls; foster parents assist with how to communicate and/ or help with homework, etc

Emergency removal in crisis situations- Placements are needed for short term

• These short term families are required to go through licensing process

Cheryl: staffing on Kim’s end.  Social Worker assigned to child also works with birth family

Ginger:  Aces 101 workshop would be helpful for working with foster children

Action Steps:

Talking with any organization or friends/family about the needs; how or who you can connect with

Collect supplies 

Perhaps post on social media

Don’t wait but act while its fresh

Other updates

Jordan Lutheran – to collect items in May

Info session May

Hope Chapel, Peak, The Point are in conversation

Service Groups and Faith Alliance

Attendees:

Nicole Bernard, Niki Miller, Robert Cunningham, Jim Ahler, Ginger Espino, Patrick Jones, Cheryl Stallings, Luaskya Nonon, Nancy Hagan, Shinica Thomas, Kyle Meier, Officer Kenneth Ragland. Kim Adcock, Karen Morant

Everyone introduced themselves as there are several first-time attendees.

Introduction

Overview of what is the purpose of Service Groups and Faith Alliance of Apex.  Established to help make connections among groups and restoration services.  Create needed network of people to share resources and bring best practices and prevention into play.  Nicole shared power point reviewing past topics and connection examples.  Use the Socioeconomic Model for topic choices.  Speakers invited each month to share their experiences around their various areas of expertise.  Dive deeper links are attached each month for further learning and ways to get involved.  Introduction of Community Cafes last year via zoom to gather data from those on front line of service around vulnerabilities in the community which acted very much like a focus group.

How do we benefit and serve these families?  How do we identify and respond?

2022 Goals

Foster Care

Vulnerable Families

How do we respond to and prioritize needs?

Question to the group – What do you see on the next steps?

Kim (foster care): 1) Children coming into care need new foster care placement for teenagers as they are vulnerable to trafficking ad are sleeping in building 2) ID family or relatives that can take child, but they need some sort of help to get licensed (i.e., repairs) Cheryl – Resource for kids aging out of foster care – Pullen Church

3 issues:

• Kids into foster care with increased risk 60% sex abuse interfaces with foster care
• Prevention
• Kids in general esp. foster kids are falling into internet abuse due to COVID creating more stressors.

Probably haven’t seen full impact of pandemic around foster care needs.  Again, need more beds.  Today the number 440 in care, less than 150 homes, some being kinship or at capacity.   Has this number changed during pandemic – fluctuates but has increased in last 6 months. 

Jim – seeing economic issues as landlords are increasing rents as eviction moratorium(federal program) is phased out.  Food vulnerability is still there but WWCM is not involved in foster issues.    Cheryl says Town Council is very aware of housing needs…new Broadstone Walk (164 units) affordable housing will be coming. 

Shinica   About 1600 people countywide need housing assistance while preservation of current affordable housing is a key focus.

Karen Morant – Western Regional Community Advisory Committee – working regionally to address affordable housing.   Mapped out about 600 units of AH that could be built in the region.  Foster care- housing for our children in our own community pre pandemic – partnering with houses of faith in particular; rehabbing homes – municipalities have programs to refurb current housing that may enter into the foster care space.  Also working with state on food insecurity to ID neighborhood food site distribution as well as masks, hand sanitizer, gloves & testing; worked with schools

Cheryl –Apex Cares for families that need home repairs – reach out to her for potential help

Kim – Nicole asked Kim to help us parse out how housing insecurity can lead to food insecurity and how this may put kids into a foster care situation.  Kids age out and then need to come back 18-21 years old and this can be challenging to find a place for them for support and this can lead them to becoming victims to meet their needs.   

1)opioids is top reason for entering foster care

2)Ginger ….85-90% neglect

• Increase capacity for adults that are caring for children reduces the potential need for removing the child.  No stigma in asking for help needs to be reinforced.

Nicole asked Kim – if they are helped with meeting basic needs does this reduce the need for fostering?  Absolutely. Resources they go to (daycare) may not be safe.

• Does this group want to focus on these things?
• Increasing access basic needs – crisis
• Increasing access available home as they enter foster care – response

Kim offered to be available to speak and get the word out there to educate and garner resources

Nikki – Would churches consider sponsoring a child that needs care during the day?  Kim, would you be able to ID parents that would need that? Kim could provide contact info for prevention side – the needs would be easily identifiable 

Nicole – community engages one church one family – crisis response, ie each church has a family with a network of support around that family.  Would anyone be interested in this?  Jim was unsure about UMC.   Is there interest in addressing the crisis phase?  

Ginger – Growing Resilience Movement – making sure dots are connected throughout county…need a central location via website to access resources that can help   Working on pilot to bring resources TO the church – how do we do that so its not overwhelming to the church and share best practices with other churches.

NEXT STEPS

For next month’s meeting:  decreasing of children being neglected; responding to crisis situations as they go into foster care

Nicole asked Kim if there is one thing as a community we could do to aid foster care…. New foster homes; integrating birth family into foster family which helps with the prevention issue

Jim asked Kim if she has promotional material to recruit foster families.  Kim will send this to Jim via email.

Question to Kim… Are there physical needs not being met for foster children – They need suitcases, toiletry basic items and a variety of products needed.

Nicole will meet with Kim and Ginger to parse out a plan.  Will present a plan outline at the next meeting to discuss.

Service Groups and Faith Alliance

Substance Use Disorder

December 7, 2021

Meeting Minutes

Attendees:

Nicole Bernard, Officer Kenneth Ragland, Niki Miller, Tiffany Eggelston, Paul Hart, Detective Warrneke, Detective Burns, Emily Johnson, Tisha Temple, Britney Williams, Sheila Alford, Kim Adcock, Nicole Singletary, Nancy Hagan, Mindy Varkevisser, Jim Ahler, Heather Pane Seifert, Deb Vinci, Danica Coleman

Panel of Guests:  

• Tiffany Eggleston, Behavioral Health Counselor, licensed mental health counselor, licensed clinical addiction specialist
• Detective Burns and Warneke from Apex Police Department Drugs and Vice Unit
• Emily Johnson, Local resident with experience in recovery and supporting those in recovery
• Tisha Temple, opening a local faith-based non-profit (Grow in Grace) to serve women recovering from substance use disorder

Introduction

Substance Use and exploitation are linked so this is an important topic for Human Trafficking.  Also, substance use could involve trauma induced addiction

Tiffany Eggleston kicked off the discussion with her background and experiences.  She is working with Wake Med Transitional Care Services and those presenting at the ED who have agreed to access the services available to them.  What does addiction look like to you?  Family and community-based problem; people looking for connection from possible trauma; back-alley drugs offered.  Drug use doesn’t discriminate.  Women are the most stigmatized groups often starting with opiates. 

Ms. Eggleston suggests we use the term “substance use disorder” instead of “substance abuse” because the term is more widely accepted and is a classification in the DSM 5.She also suggests approaching clients who are struggling with substance use disorder with an attitude of “What has happened to you?” instead of “What is wrong with you?’

Professionals may use one of many approaches when working with individuals struggling with substance use.

Punishment and Shame- not advisable

            Moral model – focusing on individual is weak or character fault

            Disease/Medical model – focus for today

            Psycho dynamic model – mental health

            Social learning model – behaviors and learned behaviors

            Socio cultural model – environmental

            Public health model – harm reduction (needle exchange, methadone, etc.)

Defining popular terms:

Dependence (ex of everyday caffeine) – opiate dependent (alcohol and benzos (mental and sleep disorder scripts) both can cause death.

Substance abuse – updated terminology to Substance Use Disorder

Addiction – brain system is being rewired and a substance that once “rewarded” the brain with dopamine or other “feel good” hormone no longer has the same effect

Substance use disorder – more commonly used to denote alcohol and drug addiction

Brain Disease and Factors that increase risk – for women trauma is important factor of cause rather than shame/punishment

Treatment – variety of formats

Outpatient

Structured inpatient

Several in our area – Healing transition, Holly Hill, Triangle Springs, Southlight, Wakebrook, Wake network of care

Tiffany offered herself as a resource for connection (teggleston@wakemed.org)

Detective Ragland introduced Detectives Burns and Warneke to discuss substance use and misuse in our area

Detectives Burns and Warneke are undercover narcotics detectives that work with many types of law enforcement including SBI, Homeland Security, FBI and law enforcement throughout all neighboring communities

• Trends – biggest one is fentanyl in counterfeit pills from Mexico and China – Xanax and 30 ml oxycodone are now being laced with fentanyl (produced locally 2 yrs. ago but coming from Mexico now)
• Because prescription pain medicine is more difficult to get – criminals are using pill presses to lace pills with fentanyl. This makes it impossible to visually tell the difference between a pain pill and one that has been laced with fentanyl. For example, sellers may tell the buyer that the pill is oxycodone but it is actually fentanyl. Rates of overdose is increased because of this.
• Of particular importance young or inexperienced users are dying because they don’t know what they are getting
• Occasionally, more experienced drug users know pills are being laced with fentanyl and actually seek them out
• Heroin still a problem? – Xanax was the beginning of this but fentanyl is taking the place of heroin; very little true heroin is out there anymore.

How to help young people? Educating young people so they understand how fentanyl and heroin are related and how it kills them.  (Slow respiration, heart rate and death – like going to sleep.)  Sellers can be very convincing of the pills’ authenticity and there is no way to know how much fentanyl is in the pills.  

Officers appreciate having any tips sent to them as that is their major resource to investigate. (Apex PD – 919-362-8661)

Tisha Temple (growingracettemple@gmail.com) and Emily Johnson – advocates for community and connecting people; Emily graduated from Healing Transitions, a local substance use disorder program. 

Tisha has been living in long term recovery since 2014 when she was released from prison after 3 incarcerations.  She works for the local Drug Councils in all 100 counties in the state and informs treatments that are available.  She supports all paths to recovery. Tisha entered into the Oxford Home, recovered, was employed, went to school, moved out on her own and is now married to suicide survivor.   She appreciates what her supporters have done for her and wants to help others along their journey to health. She is opening Growing in Grace under the umbrella of her church as a Self-supported home for women.  The home is to be located in Johnston County but is open to all women whether or not they are from Johnston County. Faith, employment, and education are the program’s focuses.  They want to be a resource.  Dream Center also supported from her church are survivors of domestic violence.

There will be a February dinner and silent auction to support the purchase of a home in Selma/Smithfield. Donations are welcome. The banquet will have 288 seats available for $50 each. They are also seeking sponsorships. The home’s support has come from many areas which exemplifies that people want to help individuals with abuse issues. Tisha is hopeful to one day open a men’s house as well.

To donate to Grow in Grace click the link below, type in the amount, choose a campus (Selma), Choose a fund (Recovery Alive Grow in Grace Sober Living Home).

https://www.templereprents.com/give

Questions:

What kind of services that address complex trauma will be provided by Growing in Grace?  Tisha explains that her organization is securing partnerships with professionals to assure the women get the counseling they need. She would like to see the women receive intensive outpatient care 3 times a week.

Det Burns/Warneke – Are you seeing instances where trafficking survivors are being forced to sell substances?  It does occur but not something we see often.   Detective Burns referenced  2017 local Human Trafficking case where substance abuse and trafficking were linked.

Gang involvement? – The detectives say that they haven’t seen any gang activity locally.  

How can we help?  USPS, FedEx, etc. do interdict and do a good job to disrupt the drugs coming in through the mail. Strengthening our border would help.

The detectives explained that buyers who are searching out the product is 50% of problem so reducing demand would help. One observed recent change was when COVID hit, the drug flow became slower. As supply was reduced, the price of drugs went too high for the drug dealers so they were leaving the drug business.

Service Groups and Faith Alliance Meeting Crime
October 19, 2021

Attendees:
Detective James Allen, Apex PD Internet Crimes Against Children Danica Coleman, Apex PD Victim’s Advocate
Nicole Bernard
Officer Ragland
Cheryl Stallings
Kevin O’Brien
Nancy Hagan
Sonya Edwards
Marty Tanis
Niki Miller
Deb Vinci

Detective Allen and Danica Coleman provided overview of their roles and backgrounds. Detective Allen:

He deals with online child pornography. He has seen a marked increase in the past year with peer (juvenile) incidents due to kids being home and online searches that lead down dangerous rabbit holes. Twitter also has this issue but is not good at self-reporting, which is how he gets info from other social media platforms. He is seeing an increase in regularity of teens viewing images of younger children. Twitter undercurrent Mega…search for young girls and boys and then share or trade the images.

Kevin…How do you generate leads? Info obtained from other area agencies, from chat rooms (3 servers worldwide) and impersonate someone to get leads. Database must self-report and run algorithms that are based on words or skin exposed. SBI heads task force that leads this effort and generates subpoenas for search warrants.

Cheryl…What can be done for early intervention and prevention by Apex PD? Use the school resource officer program to contact kids and parents to encourage parents stay involved. For example, there is an App that looks like cell phone but is dangerous for children. Work with schools, churches, parents for prevention and be educated about risky Apps. Kids do not know what a loving relationship should be. They think pornography is what sex is and then they act out what they have seen. Kids have super computers in their hands. Parental awareness is key.

Myths that are prevalent:

All offenders are dirty old men. The reality is, there are just as many women involved. For example, women, or even husband & wife teams, will work together to edit and post images.

Innocent looking photos, ie swim meet photos can become erotica in the wrong hands. Be aware of what you are posting online. Maybe post a face only picture instead of the child’s whole body.

Offenders may go into a store and use their phones to record children or ladies in yoga pants. You can’t stop this. The victims are unaware that they are being recorded.

Who consumes these images? All types of people. Prosecution is likely, with exception of teen sexting Teen offenses are not something that is desirable to prosecute. Instagram is often an offender’s favorite platform to use to exchange nude pics and when faces are included in the picture, that can lead to extortion. We have victims of this in our area.

Some pornographic video collections come from Eastern Europe which limits what can be done from here. Often, parents are involved in the productions with their children. Children want to be pleasers and are easily manipulated by offenders, especially if the offender is a relative. These are very rarely abduction situations.

Nicole asked about unknown text message she received from someone trying to meet up. She responded that they had the wrong number. She received reply with pic and person asked for her name. Russian lettering. Detective Allen told her that it is common that predators use “blind contacts from harvested information”. He has investigated incidents involving telephone numbers from the Ivory Coast (50+ men posing as young females and asking for explicit images, then they extort money from the victims once the victims send the images). This is major, highly prevalent way to extort funds.

Nicole shared that victims experience trauma from these situations in two ways 1) during the production of image and 2) knowing that the image is being consumed. Getting restitution for the victim from the consumer is difficult and not currently available in NC. Shield NC worked with Rep Davis who agreed to sponsor House Bill 598 which allows the victim to receive restitution from the consumer. The bill passed unanimously in the House but is currently stuck in Committee in the Senate. Shield is currently advocating for the presentation of the bill to the Senate. If you have any interest in assisting, let Shield know. (nicole@shieldnc.org)

Danica has also assisted victims who were baited for pictures in our area. We seem to have a bigger problem with consumers versus producers in Apex.

Images are often traded versus being sold. According to Detective Allen, extortion is where the money is made. Detective Allen also said that in his experience, perpetrators produce pornographic images, not for the money, but because they just like producing the images. Then they use them for online sexual extortion.

How can we help? Detective Allen speaks to civic, church and other groups to talk to parents and kids. Have involved conversations with kids to avoid exploitation. Support House Bill 598 in order to give law enforcement another tool to help with this problem.

DON’T TAKE AND DON’T SEND PICTURES OR VIDEOS. EDUCATE YOUR CHILDREN EARLY ABOUT THE DANGERS OF SHARING EXPLICIT IMAGES!

Danica put link in chat regarding risk factors and how to combat. (https://defendinnocence.org/) Feel free to reach out to them with questions.

Danica.coleman@apexnc.org James.allen@apexnc.org

Service Groups and Faith Alliance Meeting

Apex Immigration Services

September 21, 2021

Attendees:

David Brown, President of Apex Immigration Service
Nicole Bernard
Niki Miller
Apex Chief Armstrong
Danica Coleman
Jim Ahler
Kim Adcock
Nancy Hagan
Gaby Iduate
Gladys D’Estefano
Marisol Paren
Officer Kenneth Ragland
Deb Vinci
Western Wake CM
Mindy Varkevisser
Western Wake CM

919-619-3952

Nicole introduced the connection of Undocumented Immigrants and their vulnerability to trafficking.  Nancy Hagan has expertise in this area and will contribute as appropriate.

David Brown has led charge for Immigration Services in the Apex area and Nicole came to know him from Western Wake Crisis Ministry.  This is a key service for United Methodist Church.  

David has been in Apex since 1995 and retired from GSK and is not a lawyer.  He shared the following information about Immigration Services of Apex via slides with us:

FOUNDED WITH:

Trusted source of information and low-cost, high-quality immigration legal services and funded by 4 Methodist churches in our area and individuals.

Nonprofit formed in 2016 serving since 2017…Pam Kenan serves as head of organization

Their offices are open Wednesdays from 9:00 am – 5:00 pm.

Apex Immigration is DOJ-recognized to provide low-cost immigration legal services.  David is DOJ rep accredited by DOJ to practice immigration law as a non-lawyer…43 total firms in NC that offer low-cost immigration legal services. 4 in Raleigh, 4 in Durham, 1 in Cary, 1 in Apex 

CLINIC OPERATIONS:

• Partially accredited DOJ Rep… can’t represent client in front of judge or in detention with ICE
• Client services/data entry
• Staffed by volunteers and 2 parttime paralegals
• Currently have a Spanish translator only
• Can only provide immigration legal advice
• Charge nominal fee based on income

WHO WE HELP:

• Low-income refugees and immigrants from all over the world who need:
  • Green card
  • Family Visas
  • Citizenship applications
  • DACA applications
  • Travel documents
  • Temporary protected status applications
  • Referral networks of attorneys and agencies for complex cases

CLIENT PROFILE:

• Refugees are from all over the world
• Many immigrants from Latin and Central America
• Clients from all over the state, most are referred by a church
• Those who need help with DACA renewal, citizenship and Green card renewal make up over 50% of services

David shared client success story Equadorian who is now citizen 

Another story about Eh who was refugee from Burma who has started interpreter business to help clients and became citizen this year.

Takes a lot of work to help these folks…takes a family to help a family.

UNDOCUMENTED

• High level of fear and mistrust – forging partnership with local church and community support organizations
• Over 95% we cannot help as they have no path to a Green Card.  Issues include entry without inspection, falsification of documentation SS#, Multiple exits and entries to US, most face a 10 year or lifetime ban to reentry into US if they leave
• They help with Power of Attorney planning in case of deportation of one or both of parents

FUTURE PLANS

• Train staff on social justice issues ie, possible victims of abuse and human trafficking and public benefits
• Expansion of offsite support close to specific areas of NC where the need is greatest
• Develop and implement pro-bono attorney network

SUPPORT NEEDS

• Help identify collaboration opportunities to better serve their clients
• Increase awareness of resources among refugees and immigrants
• Donations of time or funds are always welcome

PRIMARY NEEDS:   

• Income for their clients/job opportunities
• Help with Schooling and other needs of their client’s children
• Domestic Violence psychological support
• Emotional Abuse psychological support
• Food

QUESTIONS:

If specialist/professional wanted to offer life skills classes, are you able to accommodate for that? They are not, but partner agencies are able to do so for them, such as Fiesta Cristiana. Needed classes would include ESL, Citizenship class, teaching Spanish-only speaking clients how to read and write in Spanish.

There is a Battered Immigrant Program offered by Legal Aid. However, hard to get through by phone and requires patience.  

NC Human trafficking commission (Nancy) shared she has been working with a group of attorneys and service providers (pro-bono) to compile list of information on the complex issues of immigration and will it eventually be posted on NC Human trafficking website.    Unethical legal providers take advantage of those that need help.  Immigration reform is so needed.

First United Methodist Church in Cary participant…multiple re-entries question.  Must have protected status to exit and re-entry.

Risk of exploitation: Nicole noted many possible vulnerabilities of immigrants during David’s presentation:  couch surfing (homeless); work needed.  David shared that if serving refugee, they have protected status and will not be deported.  For immigrants, pay attention to the details of their story in order to assist appropriately – utilize community resources so they can get into the system to receive good reliable advice.

Nicole asked if Nancy would she provide indicators someone might be exploited: legal status matters, ie spouse has legal status and other doesn’t so it can be a point of abuse; apply for status through a family member which creates dependence; temporary work visas (seasonal) and have expiration date create tie to the employer allowing opportunity for abuse.

David also shared there are cases when an individual has been cheated out of wages, but resolution is almost impossible.

Service Groups and Faith Alliance

Foster Care

May 18, 2021

Attendees:

Kim Adcock ,Ryan Doherty, Wanda Reives, Kimaree Sanders ,Cheryl Stallings, Dean Duncan, Nancy Hagan, Sonya

Edwards, Mary Mackins, Mindy Varkevisser, Jodi Bailey, Danica Coleman,Britney Williams, Nicole Dozier, Deb Vinci, Jodi Bailey, Elizabeth Hunter

Announcements:

White Oak Foundation will provide tutoring June 13-Aug 14, on Mondays, Tuesdays and Thursdays from 5:00-7:30. If you know of a student who may have fallen behind during the pandemic and in need of academic help over the summer please contact Juanita Young at juanita.young31@yahoo.com or 919-362-6799. In addition, if you know of any teachers who might be interested in providing their services, please let them know per diem will be paid.

Ms. Adcock informed us thatMay is National Foster Care Month. She emphasized the fact that foster care offers support to families and is not meant to be a substitute for birth parents. The plan is also to reunite the children with their parents. The Five Protective Factors were reviewed from last month’s meeting: parental resilience, social connections, knowledge of parent and child dev, concrete support in terms of need, social connections.

Data for Wake County:

• ●  488 children are in foster care.
• ●  397 children are under 18 years old and 91 are age 18 to 21 years old.
• ●  Race/ethnicity: 225 are African American, 66 are Latino, 50 are Multiracial, and100 are White.

Nicole Bernard, Officer Kenneth Ragland, Niki Miller,

Meeting Minutes

Summary:

Kim Adcock, of Wake County Child Welfare, spoke to us about foster care.

• ●  Ages 4 -12 is the biggest age group followed by 13-17 year olds. Ms Adcock mentioned that 13-17 are very vulnerable ages and this group is at a higher risk for trafficking.
• ●  Foster Homes: Regular (115), ICPC (12), kinship (22)
• ●  Most homes are full and more homes are needed
• ●  Apex has 14 licensed homes
• ●  The biggest needs are for home in the 27610 zip code and homes for 13-18 yearolds, sibling groups and those who are medically fragile. Requirements for becoming a Foster Parent in Wake County

• ●  Must be 21
• ●  Wake County resident
• ●  Stable home and income
• ●  Adequate sleeping space (own bed without sharing with biological kids
• ●  Background check
• ●  Willing to engage in shared-parenting
• ●  Open heart and mindEvents for Foster Care Month (May):

• ·  May 4 FC kickoff
• ·  May 11 monthly info session
• ·  May 19Door knocker campaign
• ·  May 21 foster parent drive thru
• ·  Awareness information available at Public Libraries all month How can you help:

• ·  Volunteer
• ·  Word of mouth
• ·  Inform
• ·  Congratulate for Foster Parent appreciation
• ·  Raise Hope: Foster4wake@wakegov.com 919-212-7474

Introduction of Sonya Edwards, Foster Parent for 25 year and volunteers with Shield NC.

Ms. Edwards finds foster parenting very rewarding and considers it a ministry though it can be challenging at times. She emphasized that kids need us, caring adults. She explained that a monthly stipend check to ease financial needs is provided.

There are currently six kids living in the child welfare office building because they don’t have a home and have been there 6-7 months sleeping on air mattresses. This is not good for the kids. The kids really need TLC, discipline, structure, and to know they are heard and cared for.

Q&A

1. Has Covid impacted the number of children in foster care? Ms Adcock says that her department hasn’t seen the impact of COVID as yet but they expect to see an increase. Since educators are the biggest source of reports to CPS, having no interaction in the school environment so this is contributing to the lull in reports.
2. Where are referrals from? Educators are primary reporters.
3. How many referrals for children are coming out of trafficking situations? How longwill they be in foster care? Goal is within 1 year, however other issues mayrequire rebuilding the support system.
4. How soon do foster children gain access to health care and mental health care?Ms. Adcock answered that the children are seen by health care providers within the first 7 days and provided services they may need. She explains that the first thirty days in foster care are usually intense as professionals address the many needs the children have due to their history of neglect.
5. Is it important to keep children in the areas where they were living before being taken into care? Yes. The children need to stay connected to the same school, medical providers, outside activities, family and friends. The goal is to reunify so moving the children to a different area would complicate the achievement of that goal.
6. How can churches help with this? There are 1700 churches in Wake County – Imagine what it would be like if every church had 1 foster family and was able to provide support for the family by helping with daycare, setting up a meal train, being an emotional support and providing reinforcement of values. It would be a game changer!

Ms Adcock reports that “shared parenting”, between foster parents and birth parents, is necessary and requires ongoing communication. The attachment between birth parents and child must be maintained, and the example of birth and foster parent cooperating is

so important. 43% of birth parents were in foster care themselves at some point in their life. Foster families are a lifelong relationship.

The frequency of foster kids running away from their foster parents is an issue that needs to be addressed. Collaboration is key. This is not the fault of Foster Parents but education is needed on human trafficking for foster parents to understand the dangers.

Personal story from Ms. Edwards: She once fostered 2 male children. One of them went on to graduate from college. He then returned home to help his birth mother care for his younger brother: The other male child she fostered, joined the Navy,attended nursing school. After becoming a LPN, he also returned home to encourage his sister to go to nursing school. His mother got sick and he and his sister cared for their mother.

A female child that Ms. Edwards fostered, returned home to care for her younger sister while in college. In Ms. Edwards, experience, the foster children often take on a parent role for their birth parents. Kim commended Sonya on her success with this difficult family situation.

Ms. Adcock stressed the fact that foster parents must have the belief that people can change. Otherwise, their negativity affects the foster children. Birth parents usually don’t know how to meet the children’s needs and are grieving. It is important that the foster parent continue to patiently work with birth parents and provide support.

Churches in our area who support foster families:

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Apex Baptist has a foster care and adoption ministry called Village 127. Drew Stallworth from Apex Baptist will share more with us about their ministry soon.

Jodi Bailey from Summit Church shared that this week they will host a Renew Retreat for foster families (200 people signed up so far). https://renewretreat.org She shares that foster parents need support. Summit Church has volunteers who reach out and love these families. Also to help reach the community, on June 12 Summit will host a Family Fun Day for Foster Care Families. If you know of anyone who would be interested please have them register. https://summitchurch.com/event/1501 How to get started? Jodi graciously offered to share with other churches how to get started with this type of ministry. She said the main need is volunteers with the willingness to do the work. Jbailey @summitchurch.com

ShieldNC – Nicole says vulnerabilities she sees for trafficking often tie back to fostering and this would help to stop them early on.

Child Abuse of NC spoke last month about hosting a community café and gathering stakeholders to discuss how to address the vulnerabilities Apex citizens are experiences, especially those created by the pandemic . Reach out to Shield NC if you are interested in being a part of the planning of Apex’s Community Cafe event.